Family guides for connected homes

Real Risks. Practical Tips. Safer Families.

Plain-language guidance on apps, devices, games, scams, and AI, written for parents, grandparents, and caregivers.

✓ Written by a 25-year security professional     ✓ Sourced from the FTC, FBI and NCMEC     ✓ Free printable checklists

Start with three steps

Step 1

Learn the three warning signs

A rush, a secret, and an unusual way to pay show up in most scams, whether the message reaches you or your child.

See the warning signs

Step 2

Complete the Family Safety Baseline

Ten settings and habits that reduce most everyday risk. Most take less than ten minutes.

Try the checklist

Step 3

Talk about it tonight

A child who will come to you first is the strongest protection a family has. Start with one question at dinner.

Find conversation starters

Explore by topic

Privacy & Identity

What gets shared or collected?

Personal details, photos, location, child identity theft, credit freezes, and digital legacy planning.

Read privacy guides

Devices & Accounts

How do we set things up?

Phones, tablets, passwords, MFA, parental controls, home Wi-Fi, and smart devices.

Read device guides

Social Media & Gaming

Who can reach my child?

Social features, chat, friend requests, in-game spending, grooming, and sextortion.

Read social guides

Scams & Fraud

Is this message real?

Phishing texts, impersonation calls, gift-card demands, and scams aimed at older adults.

Read scam guides

AI & Emerging Technology

What is changing?

Chatbots, deepfakes, cloned voices, and new tools families are starting to use.

Read AI guides

Family Conversations

How do we build trust?

Family agreements, screen-time habits, and conversation starters by age.

Read conversation guides

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Family Safety Check

If something has already happened

If a child is being threatened or pressured for images, or money has been sent to a scammer, take the first steps calmly: stop contact, keep the evidence, and report it. The Get Help page lists who to contact. In an emergency, call 911.

About OnlineFamilySafety.com

David Pahlman, author of OnlineFamilySafety.com

OnlineFamilySafety.com is written by David Pahlman, who has spent more than 25 years protecting people and information as a healthcare CIO, security auditor, and security leader. The site applies that experience to the questions families ask most, in calm and practical terms.

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